[ religious mob noises in the distance ]
panicked queer noises
19. dancer. genderless. femme. whovian. language obsessed... probably a whole bunch of other things...have fun.
Hey! Did you know:
- sex is okay
- so is masturbation
- watching porn won’t make you impure
- one night stands are okay too
- having sex with multiple people doesn’t make you a slut
- even 3-somes or group sex and orgies are a-okay
- sex with the same gender is alright
- not having sex doesn’t make you a prude
- your body your choice no matter your gender
- shaming other people for who they have sex with, how much they have sex, and even their kinks make you NOT okay!
i made this comic after a series of frustrating conversations in which dudes told me to ‘learn to take a joke’ instead of getting upset about transphobia in the media. i laugh a lot, but i’m not gonna laugh at anything that dehumanizes me. because its not just a show, its my whole life. these are just some moments from the last ten years. i could go on. but also, yay comics! :D
Check out these great comic strips by a wonderful woman, Eva. This is so necessary.
"Trans men are MEN. Not special edition sparkly vampire fluffy unicorn womyn-space-compatible men-lite. It is utterly, utterly, utterly fucked up to even suggest that they should be allowed in womens’ spaces, especially at the expense of trans women."
"We can tell our children that school is important until we’re blue in the face, they’re not stupid. They see the loudest applause is for the kids on the field. They know teachers are paid poorly and don’t drive fancy cars. They know people plan Super Bowl parties but mock the National Spelling Bee. In other words, they see the hypocrisy, and we can’t expect society to correct itself. If we want to have any lasting influence on the way our kids approach education — the way future generations approach education — then we have to grab our pom-poms and paint our faces and celebrate intellectual curiosity with the same vigor we do their athletic achievements."
and if you’re not sure about someone’s gender pronouns, just ask! respectfully, of course. (✿◠‿◠)
(e.g. “what are your preferred pronouns?”)
You know how many people call me IT.
I’m not even kidding.
ALL the people in college who thought they were my FRIENDS called me IT.
I’d rather you ASK what my preferred pronouns are if you can’t TELL that when I say “Hello, my name is (insert my BLATANTLY MALE NAME HERE)” that I’m a MALE. Don’t say “That’s a dumb name for a GIRL.” or “Why would your parents give you a BOY name?”.
Call me IT (or SHE), especially AFTER knowing my preferred pronouns is the sure fire way to make me turn into a violent monster.
No one should have their pronouns mixed up, or be called it. That’s extremely disrespectful.